The Attraction Trip-Wire That Awakens a Man's Deepest Longing for Love Trip Wire: "A hidden trigger that sets off one or more explosive events." Deep within the heart of every man is an intense longing to be someone's hero. This longing has ancient origins. You see, the cause of this longing is written into the very fabric of his DNA. And there it lies, dormant... until one day, the right trigger unleashes its power. I'd like to show you how to become that trigger, and how to awaken the full force of your man's bonding instinct. But first, a story. It's the story of human connection. Before we can care deeply about someone, we must know something about their life story. Because stories evoke empathy. Stories allow us to picture ourselves in someone else's shoes. Stories form the foundation of all human connection. They create the sensation of one shared life experience. It's strange, but true, that we can even find ourselves rooting for thieves and criminals as long as we see their story unfold. Movies like Ocean's Eleven and The Italian Job illustrate this well. In the movie Ocean's Eleven, actors George Clooney, Brad Pitt, and Matt Damon make for a cast of likable thieves. But beyond their good looks, we get pulled into the story. We discover what's driving Danny Ocean's motivation to rob a casino. A casino that just happens to be owned by his ex-wife's new lover. We can empathize with Danny Ocean's pain. And by the end of the movie, we are actually rooting for him to get away with it. To steal the money and disappear into the sunset with his ex-wife Tess by his side. Perhaps stranger still is the way we respond to fiction in the first place. A skilled novelist can have me on the edge of my seat, rooting for a person who doesn't even exist in real life. Literary critics may scoff, but I actually liked the Twilight series by Stephanie Meyer. I think my hand was actually trembling from adrenaline as the Volturi began to march across the field, intent on destroying Bella's daughter. But wait, that's all make-believe. So how could it cause a physical reaction in my body? The answer, of course, is the power of story. Since ancient times, stories have been the primary means by which humans communicated important information. Because of that, our minds are literally wired for story. Stories influence our emotions. They are at the heart of communication. Allowing us to feel connected to each other. Visit our Free Presentation on His Secret Obsession